What brought you together

As a couple, there are many reasons why you choose to be together. I truly believe that we are a part of the higher consciousness and that she guides us where we are allowed to grow more or deeper into ourselves.

Therefore I truly believe that this beautiful child is here to learn, grow and teach with and from you.

Isn’t that amazing?

We know that opposites attract and that this attraction comes with learning and growing pains to learn and accept each other’s differences without wanting to change one other. Does that come easy? Nope. It doesn’t. Always coming back to the question:

What is it that I can learn from you in this exact moment or situation? And what part of me is being triggered? Asking yourself this question gives you the chance to avoid fighting or discussing or ‘wanting to be the one that is ‘right”.

Imagine if all couples would open up in this way. Talk to each other in a compassionate manner, specifically during pregnancy where language around the mother should be soft, warming, sweet and loving.

As a human, I know that this way of communication is a huge learning curve for all of us because we have a part of us that is ego and wants to be right.

So, practice, as much as you can to approach your partner as loving and compassionate as possible. To see where you can learn from each other and before communicating outwardly, ask yourself this question:

What part of me is triggered right now? Why does this feel as if (I’m being attacked, feel sad, feel x,y,z) and express how you feel instead of going into the ‘matter’.