How we are raised, leaves a deep imprint for life. Were you seen and heard as a small child? Was there space for you? Are you your parents first child or the last?
I want to invite you to take a quiet moment and think about your childhood. Write down the beautiful moments that come to mind and what you would love to bring into your parenting.
And write down the things/ways/situations that you didn’t like from your upbringing and what you automatically would not like to bring into raising your future child.
Remember this one thing… our parents, less conscious than we are today, did the best they could, with the tools and information/ways they had…. even if this might not feel this way at the moment.
It’s never about what happened …. but how you’ve perceived it and what this has done to you and your soul, on an emotional level.